Blog post by: Faith Callens

We’ve all been there. Eager to help this person and that person but when the kettle pot boils down, we are left to defend for ourselves. But, it comes a time when other peoples’ pick-me-up turns into either a joyful moment for you too or it could leave you asking the question, “Why did I even decide to help this person?

I’m talking about from hours, to days to weeks thinking about the outcome of your willingness to help. But no more. I’m not saying don’t help but be cautious and wise with who you are helping . Even, ask God to give you discernment to know who needs your help the most. Each day we live and breathe , it counts so make it worthwhile.

Okay, first.. protecting your peace. When dealing with others, look at how they carry themselves (i.e attitude, character), to see if it’s that’s the person you want to involve yourself with because if you didn’t know..energies travel whether it’s positive or negative. So, be careful.

Secondly, just because it’s someone you know or a close relative/friend,don’t feel obligated to ALWAYS help. Sometimes you have to say “NO”.

“No,No,No,and No! to protect yourself from negative energy and to focus on you. Trust me, learning the words “N-O” will give you so much peace and control over your life if there needs to be. Also, with saying no, it escapes you from unneeded stress and worry. Remember, you always want your glass to be half-full than half-empty.

Thirdly, Letting go. Letting go is similar to a butterfly ready to use it’s wings to fly and that’s how daily situations should be. If the situation makes you feel bad, let it go. If the situation causes you havoc and stress, let it go. Keep positive energy and good thoughts always and let the things you can’t change, fall out of your thoughts, your hands just like sand in an hourglass..

Lastly, have a great Friday and mind the business that makes you the happiest!

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Xo,

Faith